How I Feminized my Husband 1: The real-life story of how I turned my husband into a submissive sissy (Feminized Husband)

Even though it often seems as if there is a gaping chasm between fantasy and reality, the truth is that sometimes the line is finer than others might imagine. How I Feminised my Husband is the real-life story of how one woman slowly, carefully, and lovingly led her husband across that line. Lady Alexa is the real deal, a dominant woman in a female-led relationship, with a forcibly feminised husband. She is, in fact, the very pinnacle of the fantasy, but such was not always the case. As her story reminds us, real-life Dommes and submissives are not born, fully-formed, and knowing exactly what they want, but made patiently over time, through plenty of trial-and-error. Some readers may be surprised to read how nervous and tentative Lady Alexa was in the early days, and how difficult she found it to talk to her husband about her fantasies, but that is how life works. No matter how naturally dominant someone might be, fear of rejection and worries about the future of an established relationship are something we all cope with. It is a nice fantasy to think that a Domme can simply snap her fingers and have life bend itself to her whims, but that is not how it works. Lady Alexa weaves a slow, careful, patient tale of moving towards a female-led relationship, complete with forced (yet loving) feminisation. She takes us from an awkward moment of coercing her husband to slip into a pair of knickers, through a long period of experimentation and gradual development. She does not just stand up one morning and insist her husband start wearing woman's clothing - she eases him into it, a little bit at a time, slowly overcoming his reluctance, and making the next step seem like a natural progression, until she has the housewife she has always dreamed of. Yes, there is some humiliation involved, and Lady Alexa does talk frankly about punishment, but the feminisation of her husband is not about abuse or degradation. It is about taking someone that she loves, living out a fantasy, and transforming them into someone she finds aesthetically pleasing. She also acknowledges the real-life constraints of such a fantasy lifestyle, and talks about how deals with both the female-led relationship and feminisation aspects in public and at family gatherings. No matter your gender or your role, How I Feminised my Husband is a fascinating read. More than that, it is an empowering read . . . an encouraging read . . . and one that assures us fantasies can indeed become reality.

A husband comes along as his wife breaks into the world of BDSM. The husband is brainwashed into a submissive personality. She gets a rush from humiliating him. He gets a perverse for of enjoyment from it. Charming. The book documents her decent into being a confirmed misandrist. It's really a fictionalized account of what happened. Part of the fantasy of their life style. Alexa has a husband who is willing to do a lot to get his wife's approval. He likes being humiliated on and off, and she seems to like obliging him on that. They have reached the point of diminishing returns. They might or might not go off the deep end. The couple I know in a relationship like this has gone far, but not as far as these two. Why Alexa and Girl (ex-Alice, ex-Cindy, ex-Adam(?) [I doubt he was ever Adam]) found their lives were so boring that they found this lifestyle to distract them from their irrelevent existence is beyond me.

Lady Alexa, no doubt a dominant female, shares the taboo that rules her life. Her husband, rules no more. His lack of self-esteem allows him to be exfoliated of his masculinity as long as it takes place inside the home. The power shift that takes place does so harmoniously as Alexa psychologically destroys his alpha makings. The hardest for me is her motive but without regard to that, her methods are erotic and voyeuristically easy to read. Europe is so much older and advanced compared to western civilization. I choose to read this material both as a prequel to the future but as an opportunity to objectivity. The irony of her love for the penis clouds my mind when she spends her life minimizing its true value. Possibly the horns of the cuckold are forming as she contemplates breast augmentation and pierced ears. She has begun the travel down this path as Mistress Alexa has introduced felation exercises on her synthetic phallus dropping the hint that her intentions are to take his anal cherry when she decides that "she's" ready.

The subtitle should be "How I turned a playful man into a "Stepford Wife". This book gives credence to the old adage "Power corrupts, and total power corrupts totally." Lady Alexa turned a bedroom game into complete domination of her husband. The only way a person can call this a loving relationship is if they think it is okay for one person to so completely control another that he has no will of his own. One can only hope that something will so shake up the man that he realizes that he is not a human puppet, but he was created for a reason - a human with mind, will and emotion of his own.

I have been a reader of Lady Alexa's blog for some time now. This book is basically a compilation of her blog and presents most of her story of feminizing her husband in one place. It is more user friendly than reading through individual blog posts and presents a nicely written example for someone who is looking for guidance on this topic. This is certainly not a topic that is widely known and this book is a rare resource for a woman who may have discovered this interest or was introduced to it by her husband. The book is well written and a pleasure to read although it could use some more careful editing to correct some errors. I would highly recommend this book to any woman who is looking for guidance on how she might proceed in the commendable process of feminizing her husband, willing or not, into a submissive girl.

Just what I wanted

A very interesting and informative read with some helpful suggestions. I did notice that as the story progresses, it is more about the wants and wishes of the woman than that of the feminised male. This is fine and even expected up to a point, but I get rather frustrated when the relationship turns towards introducing another male into the relationship, especially for male on male interactions that the feminised male isn't necessarily consenting to. Whilst pushing boundaries and even introducing levels of humiliation is expected and even desirable, I wish the author had confined the "story" to that of their initial loving relationship.

A very interesting take on how to train sissies and on Female led relationships. Thank you very much for sharing.

I was really touched by the obvious genuine loving relationship you have and applaud the wisdom of your step by step consultative approach. Thank you for a fascinating read.

Not the best read I have ever had and there are loads of typos \ spelling mistakes. I also felt that in parts the author had lost the plot but O.K. - just O.K.