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title: "The Man's Guide to Women: Scientifically Proven Secrets from the \"Love Lab\" About What Women Really Want"
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# The Man's Guide to Women: Scientifically Proven Secrets from the "Love Lab" About What Women Really Want

**Brand:** john gottmanjulie schwartz gottmandouglas abramsrachel carlton abramseric michael summereraudible studios
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## Customer Reviews

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 5.0 out of 5 stars







  
  
    For The Man Who Wants A Lasting and Rewarding Romantic Relationship
  

*by P***O on Reviewed in the United States on February 15, 2024*

This book offers valuable insights based on clinical research conducted on 3,000 couples over a 40-year period. The author John Gottman writes in a clear, flowing and easy-to-understand, sometimes humorous, style that makes this book an easy and enjoyable read. The chapters are also logically organized and provide a progressive learning experience.The key takeaways on what a woman wants from a man in a serious relationship:1. Trustworthiness2. Safety.The author provides tools on how to build trust and the sense of safety.The author then takes the reader through the different stages of a serious romantic relationship:1. Dating2. Romancing the woman and determining if she is the right one3. Making love to her4. Living with her day-to-day5. How to love her for a lifetimePlenty of helpful tips are offered for each stage.  Wait till you READ the chapter on 'Making Love to Her' !!!The only caveat is that the couples in the research are from the Washington area. So, some of the conclusions and priorities may change depending on regional demographics.  Nevertheless, I highly recommend this book to any man who wants to keep the love of his life for a lifetime.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 5.0 out of 5 stars







  
  
    Finally!
  

*by D***  on Reviewed in the United States on October 25, 2024*

As a female with more of a male mind at times. I can say I want to hand this over to every male that I know. It’s very easy to read and the recap at the end of the chapter in bullet point really highlight the does and don’t. If this book keeps going as well as it is I’m going to be very happy. It’s easy to read and I hate reading.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐ 4.0 out of 5 stars







  
  
    Useful, yet condescending
  

*by F***D on Reviewed in the United States on January 31, 2017*

First let me say that I hold John Gottman in the highest esteem. His work in the field of marriage is groundbreaking to say the least, and in my experience nothing short of a godsend. Yet I have to wonder if it is indeed fair to hold this work up to the standard of his previous books, mostly because it is addressed entirely to the male gender. Which is where the presentation goes off the rails in my opinion. As far as the practicality, relevance and accuracy of the information presented in this book, I offer no dispute. It is the tone and presentation that has me disappointed. I have never considered myself an intellectual, but if the neanderthal this book addresses is a run-of-the-mill male humanoid, then I may be an intellectual dweeb after all. Once again, the advice is relevant and putting it into practice will yield positive results; but this book does not do itself any favors by assuming all its readers are mouth-breathing numbskulls with no life skills at all. Worth the read, but it feels like wading through an MTV teen sitcom to get the information.

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